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Alexis Dove's avatar

I really loved this. To be honest that’s why, in the past, after I stopped seeing a man I resisted the urge of shit talking him/calling him a loser, because the root of the issue is what made me attracted to him? Why was I attracted to inconsistency and emotional availability? Great food for thought — relationships are mirrors!

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cat's avatar
Mar 14Edited

thank you for this thought provoking response—i’m so glad when i find complete strangers who think the same way as me. i’m afraid, darling, we are part of the problem

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Eunié light's avatar

“Relationship are mirrors”—mm

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Alexandre's avatar

Lmao, you played yourself

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brielle's avatar

period!!!

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Donatella's avatar

i see you, i hear you, your right. Respectfully, i will continue to shit talk (p.s. this is meant a a deeply unserious joke. You really phrased everything so well and caused for introspection)

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cat's avatar

talk your shit friend, surrender to the redundant !!

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Sunayana's avatar

Wow I’ve never thought about it from this point of view. Guilty of shit-talking but okay this is an interesting perspective wow!

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Sosa's avatar

I love this, this is super relatable

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Ella Dorman-Gajic's avatar

PREACH

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Urban Nomad's avatar

Very proud of you! Literally in awe, you’re on a path that is so divine. Continue to grow!

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A bird's avatar

What is a mediocre dick? Is it an average dick? Is it an ugly dick or is the man attached to it a bad lover?

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cat's avatar

i wish i knew !

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Alexandre's avatar

Once pumped and dumped a 6 thottie and she was begging to keep seeing me. I literally did the bare minimum. Feminism has made the game too easy.

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Alice Briselden - Waters's avatar

Shiiii you wen't viral my babe, also this came for me lmao

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Alice Briselden - Waters's avatar

Shiiii you wen't viral my babe, also this came for me lmao

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raafeh's avatar

This piece helps cement* (*remind) in me that your character is the best argument you can have. To want kindness in another yet be equally able to back bite them and talk behind their back (both during or after the relationship) is antagonistic to what you want.

Whether it’s karma, the universe, divinity, or happenstance- first exist authentically to your morals and then I think it’s a bit easier to be at peace with choosing what’s best for you even if it might hurt.

At least that’s what I’ll strive for, it’s a struggle but the path itself never said it was going to be linear.

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cat's avatar

i.e. be the change you want to see in the world. well said

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Chanté Joseph's avatar

Real

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cat's avatar

glad it resonated !

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Urban Nomad's avatar

I don’t think I have laughed this much for a while. My god. Impressed

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